Are you ready to stop people-pleasing, master the art of self-advocacy, and learn how to:

⚡️ Discover your own needs and desires?

⚡️ Set empowered boundaries in your relationships with family, friends, partners, and colleagues?

⚡️ Develop emotional boundaries that help you stop taking responsibility for others’ feelings?

⚡️ Learn the art of internal validation so you can stop depending on others’ approval?

⚡️ Navigate compromises in your relationships without sacrificing your non-negotiable needs?

⚡️ Strengthen your resilience to guilt and fear so you can speak up for yourself with confidence?

⚡️ Take decisive action steps toward your own dreams?

If so, you’re in the right place.

Welcome to The Self-Advocacy School: Hailey’s masterclass series that teaches you how to overcome people-pleasing, rebuild a vibrant relationship with you, and stand up for yourself with conviction ⁠—

all without losing the empathy that makes you who you are.

  • "I have been a notorious people pleaser my entire life and this course was really life changing for me. I feel like I am more in my truth, ready to set boundaries, get my power back and start living my life the way I want. Thank you, Hailey!

    ⁠— T, program participant

  • "I honestly cannot thank you enough. This has been the SINGLE most life changing thing I have ever come across and it has literally saved me. Like, literally. Hands down best product on the market. Please keep doing what you do."

    — H., Self-Advocacy School Member

  • "Your work has been transformational for me. The Self-Advocacy School courses are so well presented that these concepts really clicked for me in a way they never have before."

    — S., Self-Advocacy School Member

The Self-Advocacy School

The Self-Advocacy School

The Self-ADVOCACY School includes:

The 22-Course Curriculum: Hailey’s flagship curriculum of 22 video courses—complete with homework assignments and concrete action steps⁠—that guide you through the process of rediscovering your voice, mastering the art of self-advocacy, and building a life you love.

In-Depth Journaling Reflections: Every course in the curriculum comes with three journaling reflections that help you quiet the outside world and rebuild a relationship with you. The 66 journaling prompts include written role-plays, inspired visioning exercises, self-compassion practices, and more.

The Vault: A goldmine of 100+ curated reading recommendations, podcast episodes, infographics, and worksheets for those who want to dive deep and learn more. Every course in the curriculum is paired with 3-5 optional follow-up resources in the Vault so you can deepen your learning and become a self-advocacy expert.

  • "It has taken many decades to find my voice and learn what I like or identify with. I've been going through your curriculum slowly and its impact is priceless. More than any other therapy or work I've read, your words are helping me untangle these very deep roots. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for helping not only me, but creating a new way forward as I model being a whole person with boundaries for my child. You are helping so many people with your work, and for that I am truly grateful."

    — K, program participant

  • "Hailey’s work is truly transformative. She does a phenomenal job of courageously leading the way to learning how to recognize and honor our own needs and emotions, let go of things that aren’t our responsibility to control, connect with ourselves and others from a place of deep authenticity, and become the future version of ourselves we most long to be."

    ⁠— B., program participant

  • "This course was such a useful and delightful experience! Hailey is an incredible facilitator and the course is well-organized and well-paced with lots of information and plenty of time to practice. I left the course equipped with techniques to get to know myself better, as well as concrete skills in setting the boundaries I need. 10/10 would recommend!!"

    ⁠— E., program participant

SCHOOL’s IN SESSION!

22 hands-on video courses teach you how to advocate for yourself with confidence and conviction.

Hailey’s UNAPOLOGETIC™ Curriculum teaches you how to rediscover your own wants, needs, and dreams; confidently speak up for yourself and set boundaries in your relationships; bravely move through guilt and fear to find strength, conviction, and courage; and build a vibrant, joy-filled life on your own terms.

Have a busy schedule? No problem. The Curriculum is designed so that you can take the courses at your own pace, on your own time. The 22 courses range from 25 to 60 minutes in length, and you can re-watch them as many times as you’d like. Every single course includes inspired coaching exercises that build your courage and motivation, and action steps to put the course skills into practice in your daily life today.

THE CURRICULUM

Module I: Coming Home to Yourself

After a lifetime of prioritizing others, it's normal to become disconnected from yourself. Before you can stand up for your needs, you must know what you need; before you can speak your truth, you must know what you feel. That's why Module I helps you reconnect with you so you can confidently self-advocate with others. Courses include:

⚡️ People-Pleasing: An Introduction
⚡️ Finding Your Feelings
⚡️ Prioritizing Self-Care
⚡️ Connecting With Your Values
⚡️ Owning Your Desires

Module II: Building Courage & Inspiration

Now that you've established a connection with yourself through Module I, Module II inspires you to become your best self: a self that is balanced, assertive, living your values, and en route to the future you most desire. This module is a playful and creative series designed to get you in the spirit of being truly UNAPOLOGETIC. Courses include:

⚡️ Summoning Your Anti-People-Pleaser
⚡️ Creating Balance in Life & in Self
⚡️ Getting Inspired with Vision

Module III: Standing Up For Yourself

Module III is your comprehensive road map to self-advocacy. Step-by- step, you'll learn how to identify and advocate for your needs; make requests; set and enforce boundaries; and have hard but important conversations in your relationships. This module will teach you how to stand up for yourself with confidence in family, friendships, love, and work. Courses include:

⚡️ Self Advocacy 101: Requests, Boundaries, & the Self-Advocacy Roadmap
⚡️ The Self-Advocacy Toolbox: Finding Your Boundaries in Difficult Relationships with Friends & Family
⚡️ Setting Boundaries in Healthy and Toxic Relationships

Module IV: Navigating Relationship Challenges

Now that you've learned the basics of self-advocacy, Module IV helps you navigate more complex relationship challenges. You'll learn how to stop taking responsibility for others' feelings and set emotional boundaries; how to navigate the complicated process of outgrowing relationships with integrity; how to compromise without abandoning yourself; and more.

⚡️ Emotional Boundaries: The Art of (Loving) Detachment
⚡️ Knowing When to Compromise
⚡️ Grief, Boundaries, and Getting Clear on What You Can’t Control
⚡️ Outgrowing Unhappy Relationships

Module V: Self-Soothing & Emotional Resiliency

It's completely normal to feel fear, guilt, shame, and self-doubt as you leave people-pleasing behind. Module V offers a toolbox of courage-building reframes, gentle self-compassion practices, and grounding nervous system regulation tools to help you stay strong, brave, and motivated as you step outside of your comfort zone. Courses include:

⚡️ An Introduction to Self-Soothing
⚡️ Reframes for Guilt, Fear, and Self-Doubt
⚡️ Practicing Self-Compassion
⚡️ Finding Ground with Nervous System Regulation

Bonus Module: Nuance Party!

In the Bonus Module, you'll dive into some of the finer nuances of self-advocacy. When is it appropriate to put others first—and when is it not? How can you practice self-compassion for your past while taking personal responsibility for your future? This module helps you practice discernment as you step into your power. Courses include:

⚡️ Making Difficult Decisions About Giving
⚡️ Navigating Transitions in Family, Love, Work, and Life
⚡️ Reframe: People-Pleasing is Actually Unkind

In-depth journaling prompts help you quiet the outside world and rebuild a relationship with you.

Every course in the Curriculum comes with three journaling prompts (66 prompts total) that guide you to dig deep, reconnect with your voice, and come home to your own feelings, needs, and desires. Journaling prompts include:

⚡️ Reflections that help you practice self-compassion toward your patterns of over-giving and people-pleasing

⚡️ Written role-plays that help you strategize difficult conversations and practice advocating for your needs

⚡️ Inspired visioning exercises that support you in imagining a future that lights you up

⚡️ Coaching exercises that help you determine concrete action steps to bring your desires and dreams to life

The Vault gives you the bonus resources you need to become a self-advocacy expert.

Throughout the 22 courses of the UNAPOLOGETIC Curriculum, you might come across something that really piques your interest; something that makes you want to learn more.

The Vault caters to all learning styles by offering over 100 curated bonus materials that include book recommendations, infographics, podcast episodes, worksheets, and more. Whether you want to do a deep dive into identifying your emotions and needs, rediscovering play, or learning about Polyvagal Theory, the Vault has resources for you!

Ready to master the art of self-advocacy?

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Frequently
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  • The Self-Advocacy School is open to everyone who is ready to master the art of self-advocacy and start living empowered, assertive, and free. All ages, genders, and backgrounds are welcome!

  • When you sign up, you'll be asked to create a log-in to access the Self-Advocacy School Member Portal. Once your log-in is created, you’ll be able to access the portal using your computer, phone, or tablet.

  • After you pay, you will have immediate access to The Self-Advocacy School, hosted here on HaileyMagee.com. You’ll have immediate access to the School, the Journaling Prompts, and the Vault.

  • Refunds aren’t available for this program.