STOP People Pleasing: The Book
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Learn how to break the people-pleasing pattern once and for all in STOP People Pleasing and Find Your Power.
People-pleasing is a coping mechanism that kept us physically or emotionally safe in the past, but wreaks havoc on our lives in the present. Luckily, the pattern is breakable—and Hailey Magee will teach you how.
STOP People Pleasing and Find Your Power shows you how to break the pattern by learning your own feelings, needs, values, and desires; setting empowered boundaries with friends, family, and partners; ending cycles of enmeshment and codependency; overcoming guilt; developing physical and sexual agency; and more.
STOP People Pleasing is a practical, inspiring, and nuanced guide for recovering people-pleasers who are ready to find their voice, speak their truth, and build the vibrant life that they deserve. You can get the hardcover here, e-book here, and audiobook here. Published by Simon & Schuster in May 2024.
The English Language edition of STOP People Pleasing is available worldwide; check with your local bookseller.
Available soon in: Spanish | Simplified Chinese | Greek | Polish | Portuguese | Russian | Dutch | Slovakian | Romanian | & more.
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HAVE YOU HEARD THE BUZZ?
"This book is gold for anyone who is trying to break the cycle of pleasing and find their power. Which is pretty much everyone in one way or another. There is truly no one more qualified to speak on the nuance of people pleasing and its effects on our relationships and internal well-being than Hailey Magee."
— JILLIAN TURECKI, relationship coach, teacher, and host of the podcast “Jillian On Love”
"Essential reading for anyone who has ever steamrolled their own needs on behalf of others'. Magee shines light on the many ways we abandon ourselves for others only to end up resentful, spent, and stuck in joyless relationships. By demystifying people pleasing as a pattern of behavior, Magee offers readers hope by suggesting alternative patterns that begin with recognizing and honoring our own needs. A must-read for anyone who's ever said ‘yes’ when they wanted to say ‘no.’”
— CHRISTIE TATE, AUTHOR OF NYTimes Bestseller GROUP and B.F.F.
"STOP People Pleasing is required reading for anyone who’s tired of feeling resentful, overwhelmed, and burned out after years of being ‘nice.’ Brilliantly, Hailey teaches us how to confidently self-advocate without losing our empathy."
— HOLLY WHITAKER, AUTHOR OF QUIT LIKE A WOMAN
"Struggle to speak up? Read this book. Feeling resentful? Read this book. Burned out? Read this book. STOP People Pleasing is THE definitive guide to taking back your power and getting in the driver’s seat of your own life."
— KATHERINE MORGAN SCHAFLER, AUTHOR OF THE PERFECTIONIST’S GUIDE TO LOSING CONTROL
"STOP People Pleasing is not only a robust practical guide on how to honor yourself in relationships, it also provides a fresh, empowering lens on how we can consciously create a deeper alignment between our actions, words and our personal values. A must-read!"