PRIVATE COACHING

Work with me one-on-one for hands-on support breaking the people-pleasing pattern and mastering the art of self-advocacy.

Is this you?

→ You want to speak up for your needs in your relationships—but fear and guilt keep holding you back.

→ You’re tired of feeling unseen and unsupported in imbalanced connections with family, friends, and partners—but you’re not sure how to stand up for yourself.

→ You’re outgrowing an old relationship, job, or way of life—but fear and others’ judgments are making it hard to trust your gut.

→ You’re exhausted by the way others’ feelings and problems dictate your life⁠—but you’re not sure how to lovingly detach.

→ You feel hollow, like you’ve been living someone else’s life, and you’re craving the aliveness that comes from living vibrantly and authentically.

→ You’re beginning to believe that life is too short to neglect joy, play, and creativity—but prioritizing them is so unfamiliar that you don’t know where to begin.

If so, you’re in the right place.

Hailey Magee

Private coaching is an encouraging and empowering space where we work together to transform your desire to stop people-pleasing into action. You’ll leave our sessions with the tools, confidence, and emotional support you need to:

My clients are saying:

  • "Signing up for private coaching with Hailey was a life-changing decision. Her knowledge and wisdom, as well as her warmth and empathy, made each session so valuable. I have done therapy many times over the years but never felt as seen and understood as I did with Hailey. She created a safe space to share, learn, explore, and grow. If you're considering breaking your people-pleasing pattern as well but unsure where to start, I highly recommend working with Hailey."

    — Olivia, Psychologist

  • “Working with Hailey has been so impactful! In all my experiences working with others in helping professions, I have never felt so heard and empowered. Hailey is so intuitive and creative in her working process and has been a godsend in my codependency recovery journey. ”

    — Abby, Social Worker

  • “Working with Hailey changed my life. Every week I walked away with real tools I could put into practice to reach my own personal goals and live a more fulfilled and authentic life. After completing sessions I feel more confident, capable, and in control than I ever have, and now I have a toolkit to help me continue on this journey.”

    — Eileen, Teacher

  • “Hailey has an incredible gift for making her clients feel comfortable, understood, and validated. This allowed me to very quickly feel safe having vulnerable conversations and getting to the heart of what I wanted to work on. She helped me envision my future and feel more control over my own life. I definitely recommend working with her!”

    — Jamie, Graphic Designer

Private coaching includes:

High-impact, 50-minute Zoom coaching sessions.

Our Zoom coaching sessions are uplifting, inspiring, and creative experiences. Combining visioning, role play, values work, parts work, somatic exercises, and hands-on strategizing for real-life change, coaching sessions guide you to envision—and embody—a new, empowered way of life.

Weekly action steps and accountability for real-life change.

We conclude every coaching session by assigning you customized action steps to enact that week. Whether it’s setting a boundary, taking care of long-neglected needs, or carving out sacred time for rest or play, weekly action steps help you transform your desire to grow into real-life change.

Lifetime enrollment in The Self-Advocacy School.

The Self-Advocacy School is my 22-course, self-paced masterclass series that teaches you how to overcome people-pleasing, nurture a vibrant relationship with you, and stand up for yourself with conviction ⁠— all without losing the empathy that makes you who you are.

Monday⁠—Friday email support.

Real-time email assistance in-between sessions is available to clients who purchase my Break the Pattern coaching package.

My clients are saying:

  • “Very simply, I went from feeling hopeless and lost to feeling completely in alignment. My whole life has changed. Hailey taught me tools I will use for the rest of my life. I cannot say enough good things about her. If you are reading this, there’s a reason you are here. Trust the process and hire her.”

    — Ed, Real Estate Buyer

  • “This exceeded my expectations. I was hesitant at first with the financial commitment, but what I learned in my time with Hailey was worth every penny! Felt like I gained a new friend along the way and I couldn’t recommend her enough. She has a huge heart and is committed to helping you shine and thrive!”

    — Rachael, Olympic Athlete, Team USA

  • “Working with Hailey has helped me gain so much clarity about my life vision and taught me the significance of valuing my whole self. I’ve learned I can trust myself and that I don’t need to hide parts of myself to please others. I’ve learned how I can use boundaries effectively, in order to stay true to myself and my dreams.”

    — Regina, Self-Employed

Three ways to work with me:

Break The
PATTERN

The Break the Pattern Package: 10 Sessions

This one’s for you if you’re seeking long-term support to speak up, set boundaries, and become your own best advocate. Over 10 sessions, we will unearth your needs, desires, and values; practice concrete skill-building for self-advocacy in your personal life, relationships, and workplace; learn coping strategies for soothing guilt, fear, and self-doubt; and build a inspired vision for the future that motivates you as you break the people-pleasing pattern and embrace your voice.

  • 10, 50-minute Zoom coaching sessions (weekly or bi-weekly)

  • Weekly customized action steps

  • Enrollment in The Self-Advocacy School

  • Monday⁠⁠—Friday email support

Investment: $2,497 (2- or 3-installment payment plans available)

GET
UNSTUCK

The Get Unstuck Package: 5 Sessions

This one’s for you if you need help navigating a specific people-pleasing challenge in a relationship, workplace, or family setting. In 5 sessions, we’ll help you get crystal clear on your needs and values; build the confidence and motivation you need to take empowered action; determine how to move forward based on self-esteem instead of other-esteem; and create a concrete plan for proceeding grounded in strength, self-respect, and integrity.

  • 5, 50-minute Zoom coaching sessions (weekly or bi-weekly)

  • Weekly customized action steps

  • Enrollment in The Self-Advocacy School

Investment: $1,397 (2-installment payment plans available)

Get A
BOOST

Single Booster Session

Booster Sessions are only available to individuals who have participated in a prior round of private coaching or the Say No Club. These are laser-focused 75-minute sessions designed to help you navigate a specific people-pleasing challenge by gaining clarity, building confidence, and creating a clear action plan for decisive steps forward.

  • Pre-session journaling assignment

  • 1, 75-minute coaching session

  • Accountability check-in email 2 weeks after session

Investment: $259

About Hailey Magee

Hailey Magee is a certified coach who helps individuals around the world break the people-pleasing pattern. She has coached over 500 private clients, helping recovering people-pleasers rediscover not only their power and agency, but their pleasure, joy, and sense of wonder. Her debut book, Stop People Pleasing and Find Your Power, was released by Simon & Schuster in May 2024.

Hailey’s refreshingly nuanced perspectives on boundary-setting and self-advocacy have captured the attention of millions on social media. Her work has been featured in The New York Times, The Gottman Institute, Business Insider, and Newsweek, and she has facilitated workshops in partnership with WeWork, Women In Music, and a variety of other companies and organizations. Certified by Erickson International, her public workshops and courses have welcomed tens of thousands of participants worldwide.

Hailey is dedicated to offering clear, research-supported strategies for change. She received her BA from Brandeis University in Massachusetts and currently resides in Seattle, WA. 

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Frequently Asked Questions

  • Yes. I received my coaching certification from Erickson Coaching International and have worked one-on-one with over 300 clients; hosted hundreds of live workshops and talks; written for The Gottman Institute Blog, Therapist.com, and more; and offered group coaching in partnership with organizations including WeWork and Women in Music.

  • Coaching is a thought-provoking and creative process that inspires clients to maximize their potential and create long-lasting behavior change. It focuses on visioning, skill-building, enhancing confidence, and moving toward the client’s desired future. Coaching is action-oriented, and every session concludes with clear, tangible steps that clients take in-between sessions to get closer to their goals.

    Therapy emphasizes psychopathology and healing from the past. It focuses heavily on developing skills for managing difficult emotions, coping with hardships, and healing past traumas. Therapy is a better fit for individuals hoping to treat mental illness; process trauma; or uncover the origins of their people-pleasing.

    Coaching is not a good fit for individuals embedded in abusive relationships; individuals seeking to diagnose mental health concerns; individuals seeking support for mental illness; or individuals whose primary goal is to heal their trauma or understand the origins of their people-pleasing.

    Coaching is a great fit for motivated individuals seeking private, supportive, and highly-customized assistance breaking the people-pleasing pattern. As your coach, I will work collaboratively with you to practice coming home to your own needs, wants, and feelings; to generate powerful action steps in support of your goals; to identify paths forward that align with your integrity and values; and to hone your unique talents, gifts, and skills.

  • I host private coaching sessions on Tuesdays, Wednesdays, and Thursdays from 11am⁠—3pm Pacific Time.

  • You get to decide whether you’d like to have your sessions on a weekly or every-other-week basis. Most of my clients prefer to have sessions every other week so they have time in-between for journaling, reflection, and completion of their action steps.

  • Yup! I’ll send you all of the information you need to log-in and get set up prior to our first session.

  • Two- or three-installment payment plans are available for private coaching. Financial aid is not available for private coaching, but The Self-Advocacy School offers an affordable options for folks seeking hands-on support.