PRIVATE COACHING

Get personalized, hands-on support breaking the people-pleasing pattern and mastering the art of self-advocacy.

Are you ready to:

→ Set boundaries and advocate for your needs in your relationships with family, friends, partners, and colleagues?

→ Prioritize your own needs, feelings, and desires after a lifetime of over-giving?

→ Develop emotional boundaries that help you detach and stop taking responsibility for others’ feelings?

→ Strengthen your resilience to guilt and fear?

→ Regain your agency by releasing the things you can’t control and prioritizing the things you can?

→ Navigate resentments, conflicts, and compromises without sacrificing your non-negotiable needs?

→ Take decisive action steps toward your own dreams and rebuild your relationship with play, wonder, and creativity?

If so, you’re in the right place.

Hailey Magee

  • "Signing up for private coaching with Hailey was a life-changing decision. Her knowledge and wisdom, as well as her warmth and empathy, made each session so valuable. I have done therapy many times over the years but never felt as seen and understood as I did with Hailey. She created a safe space to share, learn, explore, and grow. If you're considering breaking your people-pleasing pattern as well but unsure where to start, I highly recommend working with Hailey."

    — Olivia, Psychologist

  • “Working with Hailey has been so impactful! In all my experiences working with others in helping professions, I have never felt so heard and empowered. Hailey is so intuitive and creative in her working process and has been a godsend in my codependency recovery journey. ”

    — Abby, Social Worker

  • “Working with Hailey changed my life. Every week I walked away with real tools I could put into practice to reach my own personal goals and live a more fulfilled and authentic life. After completing sessions I feel more confident, capable, and in control than I ever have, and now I have a toolkit to help me continue on this journey.”

    — Eileen, Teacher

  • “Hailey has an incredible gift for making her clients feel comfortable, understood, and validated. This allowed me to very quickly feel safe having vulnerable conversations and getting to the heart of what I wanted to work on. She helped me envision my future and feel more control over my own life. I definitely recommend working with her!”

    — Jamie, Graphic Designer

Private coaching with me includes:

High-impact, 50-minute Zoom coaching sessions.

Our Zoom coaching sessions are inspiring, thought-provoking, and creative experiences that empower you to envision a new future; break unhealthy patterns; and create long-lasting behavior change to live empowered, assertive, and free.

Lifetime enrollment in The Self-Advocacy School.

The Self-Advocacy School is my self-paced masterclass series that teaches you how to overcome people-pleasing, nurture a vibrant relationship with you, and stand up for yourself with conviction ⁠— all without losing the empathy that makes you who you are.

Monday⁠—Friday email support.

Real-time email assistance in-between sessions is available to clients who purchase my Break the Pattern coaching package.

Access to The Vault.

My curated vault of over 100 worksheets, articles, podcast episodes, and book recommendations to support you along the way.

Three ways to work with me:

Break The
PATTERN

The Break the Pattern Package: 10 Sessions

This one’s for you if you’re seeking long-term support to speak up, set boundaries, and become your own best advocate. Over 10 sessions, we will unearth your needs, desires, and values; practice concrete skill-building for self-advocacy in your personal life, relationships, and workplace; learn coping strategies for soothing guilt, fear, and self-doubt; and build a inspired vision for the future that motivates you as you break the people-pleasing pattern and embrace your voice.

  • 10, 50-minute Zoom coaching sessions (weekly or bi-weekly)

  • Weekly customized action steps

  • Enrollment in The Self-Advocacy School

  • Monday⁠⁠—Friday email support

Investment: $2,497 (2- or 3-installment payment plans available)

GET
UNSTUCK

The Get Unstuck Package: 5 Sessions

This one’s for you if you need help navigating a specific people-pleasing challenge in a relationship, workplace, or family setting. In 5 sessions, we’ll help you get crystal clear on your needs and values; build the confidence and motivation you need to take empowered action; determine how to move forward based on self-esteem instead of other-esteem; and create a concrete plan for proceeding grounded in strength, self-respect, and integrity.

  • 5, 50-minute Zoom coaching sessions (weekly or bi-weekly)

  • Weekly customized action steps

  • Enrollment in The Self-Advocacy School

Investment: $1,397 (2-installment payment plans available)

Get A
BOOST

Single Booster Session

Booster Sessions are only available to individuals who have participated in a prior round of private coaching or the Say No Club. These are laser-focused 75-minute sessions designed to help you navigate a specific people-pleasing challenge by gaining clarity, building confidence, and creating a clear action plan for decisive steps forward.

  • Pre-session journaling assignment

  • 1, 75-minute coaching session

  • Accountability check-in email 2 weeks after session

Investment: $259

  • “Very simply, I went from feeling hopeless and lost to feeling completely in alignment. My whole life has changed. Hailey taught me tools I will use for the rest of my life. I cannot say enough good things about her. If you are reading this, there’s a reason you are here. Trust the process and hire her.”

    — Ed, Real Estate Buyer

  • “This exceeded my expectations. I was hesitant at first with the financial commitment, but what I learned in my time with Hailey was worth every penny! Felt like I gained a new friend along the way and I couldn’t recommend her enough. She has a huge heart and is committed to helping you shine and thrive!”

    — Rachael, Olympic Athlete, Team USA

  • “Working with Hailey has helped me gain so much clarity about my life vision and taught me the significance of valuing my whole self. I’ve learned I can trust myself and that I don’t need to hide parts of myself to please others. I’ve learned how I can use boundaries effectively, in order to stay true to myself and my dreams.”

    — Regina, Self-Employed

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Yes. I received my coaching certification from Erickson Coaching International and have worked one-on-one with over 300 clients; hosted hundreds of live workshops and talks; written for The Gottman Institute Blog, Therapist.com, and more; and offered group coaching in partnership with organizations including WeWork and Women in Music.

  • Coaching is a thought-provoking and creative process that inspires clients to maximize their potential and create long-lasting behavior change. It focuses on visioning, skill-building, enhancing confidence, and moving toward the client’s desired future. Coaching is action-oriented, and every session concludes with clear, tangible steps that clients take in-between sessions to get closer to their goals.

    Therapy emphasizes psychopathology and healing from the past. It focuses heavily on developing skills for managing difficult emotions, coping with hardships, and healing past traumas. Therapy is a better fit for individuals hoping to treat mental illness; process trauma; or uncover the origins of their people-pleasing.

    Coaching is not a good fit for individuals embedded in abusive relationships; individuals seeking to diagnose mental health concerns; individuals seeking support for mental illness; or individuals whose primary goal is to heal their trauma or understand the origins of their people-pleasing.

    Coaching is a great fit for motivated individuals seeking private, supportive, and highly-customized assistance breaking the people-pleasing pattern. As your coach, I will work collaboratively with you to practice coming home to your own needs, wants, and feelings; to generate powerful action steps in support of your goals; to identify paths forward that align with your integrity and values; and to hone your unique talents, gifts, and skills.

  • I host private coaching sessions on Tuesdays, Wednesdays, and Thursdays from 11am⁠—3pm Pacific Time.

  • You get to decide whether you’d like to have your sessions on a weekly or every-other-week basis. Most of my clients prefer to have sessions every other week so they have time in-between for journaling, reflection, and completion of their action steps.

  • Yup! I’ll send you all of the information you need to log-in and get set up prior to our first session.

  • Two- or three-installment payment plans are available for private coaching. Financial aid is not available for private coaching, but The Self-Advocacy School offers an affordable options for folks seeking hands-on support.

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